ADHDFamilies

A lot of serious news concerning ADHD has occurred since I last had a chance to update, but I thought I’d start out with a walk on the lighter side.  ADD has become a common term when describing forgetfulness.  So much so that many people make light of the condition as a whole, often without realizing that what they have just described is actually pretty close to the way that those of us with ADHD actually live our lives.

I found the following piece at thriftymommy.com.  It’s meant as a play on ADHD, but I defy anyone with ADHD to tell me that this doesn’t feel quite normal on some days.

I hope you get a chuckle out of it!

Thank goodness there’s a name for this disorder.
Somehow I feel better even though I have it!!

Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. - Age Activated Attention
Deficit Disorder.

This is how it manifests:

I decide to water my garden.
As I turn on the hose in the driveway,
I look over at my car and decide it needs washing.

As I start toward the garage,
I notice mail on the porch table that
I brought up from the mail box earlier.

I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.

I lay my car keys on the table,
put the junk mail in the garbage can un der the table, and notice that
the can is full.

So, I decide to put the bills back
on the table and take out the garbage first.

But then I think,
since I’m going to be near the mailbox
when I take out the garbage anyway,
I may as well pay the bills first.

I take my check book off the table,
and see that there is only one check left.

My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to
my desk where I find the can of Pepsi I’d been drinking.

I’m going to look for my checks,
but first I need to push the Pepsi aside so that I don’t accidentally
knock it over.

The Pepsi is getting warm,
and I decide to put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold.

As I head toward the kitchen with the Pepsi , a vase of flowers on the
counter catches my eye–they need water.

I put the Pepsi on the counter and
discover my reading glasses that
I’ve been searching for all morning.

I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I’m going to water
the flowers.

I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water
and suddenly spot the TV remote.
Someone left it on the kitchen table.

I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I’ll be looking for the
remote, but I won’t remember that it’s on the kitchen table, so I decide
to put it back in the den where it belongs, but first I’ll water the
flowers.

I pour some water in the flowers,
but quite a bit of it spills on the floor.

So, I set the remote back on the table,
get some towels and wipe up th e spill.

Then, I head down the hall trying to
remember what I was planning to do.

At the end of the day:

the car isn’t washed
the bills aren’t paid
there is a warm can of Pepsi sitting on the counter the flowers don’t
have enough water, there is still only 1 check in my check book, I can’t
find the remote, I can’t find my glasses, and I don’t remember what I
did with the car keys.
Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I’m really
baffled because I know I was busy all damn day, and I’m really tired.

I realize this is a serious problem,
and I’ll try to get some help for it,
but first I’ll check my e-mail….

Don’t laugh — if this isn’t you yet, your day is coming!!

Feels petty familiar to me!  Does it reind you of anyone that you know?  How about yourself?

Ritalin and its derivatives have been used to treat ADD/ADHD for a very long time, but for the first time scientists are finally catching up with the “why” of all this. A study conducted by David Devilbiss and Craig Berridge of the university of Wisconsin has shown that Ritalin and drugs like it fine-tune the functioning of neurons in the prefrontal cortex of the brain.

This is pretty exciting stuff if you ask me.  I can’t possibly begin to explain the medical side of all of this, but please, PLEASE.  See this article for more information.  I’ll keep you posted as new details come out.

If you are one of the millions of couples in the United States who have been struggling to have children, this post may be of interest to you.  Dr. Randy S Morris is the fertility doctor Chicago residents and experts alike call on when in need of advice on the subject of infertility, in vitro fertilization and reproductive medicine. His IVF1 Fertility clinic is well known and respected, and he might just be able to give you both the hope and the help you and your partner have been searching for.

IVF1 specializes in in vitro fertilization and pre-implantation genetic diagnosis.  Their locations in the Chicago and Naperville Illinois help couples understand and resolve fertility issues.  It may mean a bit of traveling, but if other methods have not worked for your family or you are in need of a well respected second opinion, a trip to Chicago might not seem unreasonable at all.

Fertility issues are a very personal and emotional topic.  I cannot begin to deal with them in the context of this post, or even over the course of several articles.  For more information, contact the fertility doctor Chicago calls first. Dr. Randy Morris of IVD1 Fertility Clinics. If it means a chance at the future you’ve been dreaming of, I think you will find that it’s a visit or telephone call that could very well change your life for the better.

It seems appropriate that right after reading that the writer of My ADHD Blog needs more information and more peers with Adult ADHD that this morning I found this article from the San Luis Obispo County Website titled: When Your Spouse is Hyperactive by Marriage and Family Therapist Linda Lewis Griffith.

Ms. Griffith touches on topics such as emotional flare ups, impulsivity and communication issues.  She also briefly covers some of the responses that the other spouse should use to try to alleviate a potentially emotional situation. Let me tell you from experience that she’s got most of them right.

I found this article especially interesting on a personal note since both my wife and myself have ADHD in varying degrees of severity. (Mine is more severe than hers at most times.)  The techniques she outlines are some of our day-to-day habits.  As you can well imagine, the possibility for misunderstandings and high emotions is something that our family lives with every day.  In my opinion it works to our advantage that we both have ADHD.  It helps us to understand each others behaviors in ways that someone of a more “normal” temperment and brain activity could never quite grasp.

If you or your spose has ADHD, I highly recommend this article.  Look it over and give Ms. Griffith’s methods a try.  You might just be surprised how well they work for you.

If you’re like me and want to run your own home-based business at some point in your life there are a lot of options to consider before making the leap from working a 9 to 5 and actually making your home based business your full-time job.  There’s income, of course.  Insurance, Internet access, reliable transportation, any state and federal taxes you need to pay, and of course customer service if you’re in a service industry.

For those going into the working world as consultants much of your time may be spent away from your home office. If this is the case you’ll need to consider whether or not you wish to have your calls forwarded to your cell phone, handled by voice mail or whether the added expense of an Answering Service could be a benefit to your fledgling business.

I mention this because most freelancers and contractors will not have the budget to employ an assistant or dedicated receptionist for the first year or so in business.  Answering Services can provide the illusion of a larger staff and provide better customer interaction, especially for new customers or customers that may have questions when you are not available.

If you’re considering going into business for yourself.  Consider all the options beforehand.  It’ll make life a lot easier.